thelifestoryteller were posted via Blogaway

Cuba baca kisah kat bawah ni..

Dear Mom On the iPhone,

I see you over there on the bench, messing on your iPhone. It feels good to relax a little while your kids have fun in the sunshine, doesn’t it? You are doing a great job with your kids, you work hard, you teach them manners, have them do their chores.

But Mom, let me tell you what you don’t see right now…..

Your little girl is spinning round and round, making her dress twirl. She is such a little beauty queen already, the sun shining behind her long hair. She keeps glancing your way to see if you are watching her.

You aren’t.

Your little boy keeps shouting, “Mom, MOM watch this!” I see you acknowledge him, barely glancing his way.

He sees that too. His shoulders slump, but only for a moment, as he finds the next cool thing to do.

Now you are pushing your baby in the swing. She loves it! Cooing and smiling with every push. You don’t see her though, do you? Your head is bent, your eyes on your phone as you absently push her swing.

Talk to her. Tell her about the clouds, Mommy. The Creator who made them. Tickle her tummy when she comes near you and enjoy that baby belly laugh that leaves far too quickly.

Put your eyes back on your prize…Your kids.

Show them that they are the priority. Wherever you are, be ALL there. I am not saying it’s not ok to check in on your phone, but it’s a time-sucker: User Beware!

Play time at the park will be over before you know it.

The childhood of your children will be gone before you know it.

They won’t always want to come to the park with you, Mommy. They won’t always spin and twirl to make their new dress swish, they won’t always call out, “WATCH ME!”

There will come a point when they stop trying, stop calling your name, stop bothering to interrupt your phone time.

Because they know…

You’ve shown them, during all of these moments, that the phone is more important than they are. They see you looking at it at while waiting to pick up brother from school, during playtime, at the dinner table, at bedtime…..

I know that’s not true, Mommy.

I know your heart says differently.

But your kids can’t hear your words, Mommy. Your actions are screaming way too loudly.

May our eyes rest upon those we love, first and foremost, and may everything else fall away in the wonderful, noisy, sticky-fingered glory of it all. ♥


p/s : huhu aku selalu terbuat macam ni, kadang-kadang tengah BF pun duk sibuk main handphone, nak tidokan Alisya pun sempat lagi main handphone..sorry Alisya sayang, mummy akan cube berubah and sentiasa beringat akan hal ni, daddy pun same kan..:) Handphone tu bila-bila pun boleh, tapi bila anak ada depan mata, utamakan lah anak-anak kite..

Orang tengok muka Alisya sume ckp macam muke daddynye, kui3, penat mummy mengandung 9 bulan tau, hehehe tapi xpe la orang kate anak p'puan ikut muka ayah,sejuk..
Tapi ni memang anak daddy pun, kalau daddynye balik, berkepit je dengan daddy..daddy ni cepat belajar, laju and berani je die jaga alisya, potong kuku, mandikan, sume die yang buat, mummy awal2 tu seram nak mandikan, sekarang ni baru berani..potong kuku langsung la tak berani, halus sangat tangan kakinya, hehe..
P/s:minggu ni kuarantin daddy dari alisya, sebab daddy demam, kui3

Bila dah jadi isteri ni kan, biasalah kita orang perempuan, kita la siapkan beg kalau nak kemana-mana kan, hehe, suami tukang tolong angkut masuk dalam kete..hehehe tapi jenis aku ni, biar bawak baju tu lebih, jangan kurang, mane la tau, kot kotor ke, basah ke..masa baru-baru kawen dulu (ewah-ewah ayat macam dah 8 tahun je ko kawen kan, hahaha) aku selalu re-confirm balik dengan suami baju apa or seluar apa yang dia nak bawak.

Tapi penah sekali tu, terkena bebel la encik suami dengan aku..Aku tanya dah dengan lemah-lembut gemalainya, "seluar pendek suami nak bawak tak?".., then dia jawab, "tak payah" tapi sampai je di destinasi soalan yang suami tanya adalah "seluar pendek suami bawak tak??"..aku ni dah la kadang-kadang pelupa, tapi aku yakin dia jawab tak payah bawak tadi, aku pun bebel la, tapi bebel-bebel manja la, "tadi suami yang cakap tak payah...", hehehe nasib la suami aku pun teringat jawapan die tu, so die sengih-sengih je la, lepas tu dapat beli seluar baru kan..hikhik

Pas tu sekarang ni die mula la bile nak ngusik aku, tu la bahan die salah satunya, bila nak gi mana-mana je, soalan tu la yang die akan tanya dulu..hahaha adoi, jadinya soalan tu dah jadi bahan gurau senda kami...tapi sekarang ni tak tanya dah, semua jenis baju & seluar aku bawak, hahahaha (encik suami kena beli MPV la nampaknya bila family dah membesar nanti..;))

p/s : mood nak bercuti dah datang ni...:)

I decided to give him this laptop bag bcoz his old laptop bag is quite uzur, ade dah koyak sikit here and there plus that is also his school bag, he bring it everywhere he go, kononnya isteri yang understanding ni peka la kan dengan keperluan suami tu, i just bought it online sebab pikir time bila pulak nak mencelah nak beli hadiah, all the time we go out together.
After doing lots of survey for the best bag. I finally choose this bag, but when this bag arrived, alamak terbesar la pulak, kurang sesuai untuk dipakai setiap hari, may be one day bila hubby dah kerja boleh pakai kot, bila dah kerja ade office sendiri, tak de la nak usung beg merata kan, or tak pun buat beg baby, isi baju,diapers,segala peralatan baby,hahaha

bila dah sampai umur macam ni, kita mula plan untuk naik satu-satu anak tangga kehidupan, sekarang kami suami isteri mula merancang untuk naik satu lagi anak tangga..memiliki rumah...

My Stick Family from WiddlyTinks.com

trime kasih sayang. .=] promise,i will use it wisely,jage elok2, baik punyeee. .